I am continuing giving you love making advice. Today on television the movie “What women want” will be shown. That movie is very funny, touching, and it raises many questions and gives the only answer. That answer is; a woman WANTS.
The question “WHAT” is very secondary. It’s just for formality.
A woman WANTS and that’s all.
Why does a woman suffer? Life shows, that a woman suffers when she can’t WANT. Cause until she wants, she lives.
Whatever happens with her, whichever losses she experiences, she doesn’t depend on misfortune and sufferings, until she WANTS. At least to live, or to eat, or a new hairstyle.
A man is a person of action, a woman is object..and subject of desire.
She will never get a pleasure from action not caused by a desire. However, in an action cased by a desire, she beats a man. Even if it’s desire to win a man, it gives a woman superhuman power. If it’s real desire, but not a product of mind or upbringing.
When she finds desire in her soul – real, that is the desire which gives power, a woman can forget about her problems, heredity, inferiority complexes any more. She has already stepped on the way towards happiness.
Telling that, I realize that many of you, dear women, will immediately furrow forehead and begin assiduously search for it, REAL, TRUE. And you’ll suppose, that as from it a way towards happiness begins, and from it miracles begin, then it should be very unusual, unique, great.
There are millions of lost women from this problem – they use very heavy conceptions about career, sedentary thoughts about self-actualization, oppressing reflections about correctness of their actions. A woman drowns, tied to those stone slabs, instead of sailing on waves of her emotions and enjoying the world.
And that is because of the only reason – A WOMAN IDENTIFIES HER DESIRES BY MIND.
That mistake and that inessential action are the reason of her suffering. It’s the main reason causing a refusal from desires and causing a refusal from life (in any sense of this word). Unbearable loneliness, diseases, thoughts about senselessness and pointlessness – that everything will wait the woman, who IDENTIFIES her desires.
Every woman can begin her way towards happiness right now. Every woman can make a little miracle. It’s necessary for it to do…what you want, dear women.
It’s simple and difficult.
It’s difficult to believe, of course, that it’s this way. Cause your mind demand to believe, however it got used to identify.
It waits guarantees, that exactly from fulfillment of a certain immediate desire a way towards happiness, towards a man, and towards love will begin. Lots of women deepen in searching for evidence so much, that they go away from fulfillment of desires farer and farer, that is from their own happiness and joy.
The most interesting thing is that the desire is very simple. It visited you so often, that you got used to brush away it, as you brush away a fly. It’s possible, that you consider that desire “indecent”. That desire never LOOKS great; it’s always simple, mundane, EVERYDAY. However, it IS great because of the effect, its fulfillment gives.
Remember about simplicity and earthiness of that desire. Cause your mind is ready to be switched on in any moment and begin inventing for you non-existent, however such “bright” and interesting desires. It’s something like skipping naked under moon or swearing in public places. And you begin believing that it’s the hidden, unfulfilled desire, and it will make you happy. And you experience a disappointment again. Cause you do nothing from “found”, and that means it’s from a mind, but not from a heart.
Those disappointments will teach you. You will learn to follow desires – that is to live. There are no universal patterns and keys, however, there is something simple and great –and it’s inside you. It’s a desire to reverse meeting today, it’s a desire immediately, against plans, to wash your head, it’s a desire to make a declaration to the man near you in the bus, that……
WHAT DESIRE DO YOU HAVE?
WHAT DO YOU WANT WOMEN?